In essence we forget that we are cosmic Beings, having but a short sojourn on Planet Earth.
When we return to our cosmic heritage, and claim this, we cannot shrink anymore. We have an expanded vision and a sense of being on a stage, like an actor and just assuming a role for a time. Then we discard the role, and become the true character and we live our lives congruent to this.
When we stop shrinking to fit into other people’s norms, or narrow boxes, then we become free to explore the infinity of cosmic Beingness deep within us. We do not need other people to tell us what is inside because we love delving ever deeper and deeper into the realms of cosmic Beingness, as held deep within us.